Thursday, January 26, 2012

Who is The Monday Morning Parent?

That would be me.  Not that you can't contribute - I would love to have your comments and stories to include int he blog - but the buck stops with me.  To understand the background of what you read here, it may help you to know a few things about who I am.  So, here you go:

I'm a Christian.  I am thankful that Jesus came and died so that I could be reborn.  I am a sinner saved by grace - not perfect, but working toward it.  Some days I do better than others.  My two main goals in life are 1) to let my children know that God loves them and 2) to let my children know that I love them.  If I can accomplish those two things, anything else is gravy.

I'm a single dad with two girls.  I love them unconditionally.  I am having to learn how to play like a girl.  I fear the day when they start dating.  I have told them that they cannot date until they are 30.  I came equipped with NO knowledge of how to parent a girl.  For that matter, I came with equipped with no knowledge of how to parent at all.  I want to be a good dad, and I am trying to get better every day.

I'm an engineer.  That means I act, react, and (most importantly) think like an engineer.  God has blessed me with a great ability as a single-tasker.  That's right, single-tasker.  I am at my best when I can concentrate on one thing to the exclusion of all others.  Not the best quality in a parent, but we all have to work with what God's given us.  It makes me lousy at getting everything ready for a meal at the same time, but really good at giving the girls my attention when we are playing a game.

I'm a widower.  My wife passed away in December 2007 from complications with her leukemia.  I miss her both as a wife and as the mother of my children, but God has helped me both to mourn her death and celebrate her life.  As He promised, He has changed my mourning into joy.

I'm a lousy blogger.  I started this blog with the intention of posting at least once per week.  It's not even January, and I'm already behind.  Get used to it.   

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